Hello gd morning!
Rise and shine ppl!

First time this yr i blog 2 days bck to bck....
LOL!

today i want to talk about the issue of relationships
What are relationships?
What are my views about it.
let me share my thoughts today.

Well, in my opinion, relationships basically refer to the bonds between people whether is it just friendship, just classmates or love etc.
I mean why do ppl have relationships in the first place?
Is it the social aspect of man to have relationships?
Or is this thing something natural.
I mean even animals have some form of relationship with one anotehr, especially seen in certain monkeys and animals with complex social structures.
I want to make it clear i ain't calling ourselves animals LOL!

Are relationships man's natural way of courtship? What is the role of relationships?
I would also like to ask this question, which is more important?
Should relationships be treasured over all things?
We have heard many stories about how ppl sacrifise their relationship for themselves and eventually regret it, and we have also heard stories of ppl not giving up their relationship, and losing everything else.

In the past i would be right to say that relationships are important, however, in today's cruel society, which would be more important? Are you yourself more important than the relationships you forge?

This brings me to the point on BGR, especially in schs.
Is now the appropriate time to get into a relationship?
Since young we have been drilled the fact that it isn't but are there pros to it?
Can BGRs be used as a form of motivation to do better in academics? And is a form of positive motivation? Are BGRs more of a distraction?
Based on the advice given by most teachers seniors etc, in general, BGRs don't last, however there are many success stories too. So here's my question to all. When is it justified for a relationship? Is it the gut feeling? If it is, won't maturity be an issue? Because gut feeling comes with maturity and the past experiences. But then again, the justification cannot come from a parent or outsider, because they are unable to tell exactly how far the relationship has gone, and how matured we are.

But ultimately, whether or not it is justified or not, there is 1 fact tht i must acknowledge. One way or another, all of us would have had a liking for someone before. The only difference is whether we shun of these feelings, bottle it up, or go all out, believing that it is possible to whoo another person. So back to the issue on maturity. Maturity is gained from experiences, and active feedback on how to better do things. Maturity is also how we view things, and the ability to actively see things from different perspective. So based on that definition, am I right to say that there is no such things true love between a couple? because I must acknowledge that the love between the mother and child is one of the most true and most difficult bond to break.

So thus by my definition of maturity, i am right to say that in this world there is no such thing as how mature you are, there is only such a thing as how mature you are as compared to something else. Maturity can only be compared relative to someone else. I have yet to find out if there is any scale to calculate the maturity of a person.

With that i'll end my blogpost.